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Never going to settle

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Why on earth would you settle for one or the other? Of course everyone wants to have things taken care of. We want to live in our own space, pay for the things we need and want and feel like we are in control. As someone who is constantly working on this balance, I know first hand how it feels to be less than secure.

I had a secure job. I worked it thru Covid as an essential worker, I worked it and made just enough to be secure but not enough to be happy. It didnt give me any extra time or money but I didnt need anything. Secure is overrated. In those brief secure moments when I could be adventurous, we are only talking here in the states or maybe Mexico. No tropical or intercontinental adventures.

I think we all have that desire to do and see things more than what we are offered in our secure little bubbles. I am pushing myself and growing not only personally but hopefully financially where I can be comfortable with spending more on adventure. In the mean time this business I am growing is its own adventure.

Today I was in Mississippi, on a facetime color consultation. First video consult, first test to see how I can offer this service to others and expand. I got to see out of their window to a much more luscious green view than what is offered here in the 120 Vegas desert I live in.

My income will continue to increase and that will supply me with security. But I am here for the new things, the new places, activities, new friends etc that will motivate me more towards and adventurous life!! Never settle for this or that. Always strive for this AND that!!!

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How to: Built In Nooks

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Identifying the Perfect Spot

Many homes have those small, awkward spaces like an alcove or a closet that don’t seem to have a clear purpose. These areas may seem like wasted space, but they present a fantastic opportunity to create a built-in nook. Whether you’re looking to create a cozy reading area, a stylish display, or just a comfy seating spot, these small spaces can be transformed with a little creativity.

Maximizing Natural Lighting

If your small alcove is near a window, consider using natural lighting as a focal point. Positioning a seating area here can make the space feel airy and inviting. A built-in bench under the window with a patterned cushion and some plush pillows can turn this overlooked area into a favorite spot for reading or daydreaming.

Utilizing Shelving for Function and Style

In tight spots, shelving that isn’t much more than 8 to 10 inches deep is perfect for bookshelves or displays. This allows you to make the most of the space without overwhelming it. You can match the shelving materials to the rest of your home for a cohesive look or choose an accent color or finish to make the nook stand out. Adding decorative elements like plants, photos, or small art pieces can further personalize the space.

Comfort and Aesthetics

Comfort is key when designing your nook. If the space is only big enough for a bench, make sure it’s inviting with a comfortable cushion and a few pillows. If there’s room for chairs, choose ones that are not only stylish but also comfortable enough to sit in for extended periods. Consider adding a small side table for convenience.

Personal Touches

Don’t forget to add personal touches to make the nook truly yours. A soft throw blanket, some favorite books, or a unique piece of decor can make the space feel warm and inviting. Whether you’re creating a reading nook, a display area, or a cozy corner to relax, the key is to use the space in a way that complements your lifestyle and brings you joy.

Conclusion

Transforming a small, unused space into a built-in nook is a rewarding project that can enhance the functionality and aesthetic of your home. With thoughtful design choices, you can turn an overlooked alcove or closet into a cozy, inviting area that you’ll love to use. So next time you find yourself with a small, awkward space, think creatively and start planning your perfect nook!

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Will I hit my goals?

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Ever come so far and then hit a bump or a road block? Does it ever make you want to stop and find a different path? What makes the path the wrong one?

Every day I have to keep looking towards my goal. I have been side tracked, sidelined and ready to quit. But 100 % it is a mental game and I have to keep focusing on the future I want.

I worry everyday that I am not making the right steps or taking the right turns. I worry that I cant see what is in store. I worry that I am not tough enough mentally or physically to make it happen.

But I know I am a stubborn person. I know what I want. I know I’m not going to give up. So the future should worry about me!!

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Parachuting.. figuratively speaking that is.

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What I mean by parachuting is keeping an open mind to learn new things, try new things and experience new things. I have heard this quote several times and I still like it because I am passionate about personal growth and building.

We have a short time in this life to grow and explore. This world however has so many unique places and offers so many ways of life. One person could never experience them all even with ten life times. My goal is to get as much out of it as I can with what time I have.

That doesn’t mean that I am always on a plane, in a boat, riding a train to whatever stop is next. I am still working on that luxury but while I dream of those places I read about them and learn about different people. Experiences arent limited to places. A stranger can show you something that might inspire you, a conversation change your mind or opinion, teach you something new.

We are taught the beliefs and habits of our parents, friends and family that surround us. Having an open mind also means being open to how others live their lives or their beliefs. I have had many conversations that have had profound effects on me because I received a different perspective from a trusted friend. I have learned new ways how to work, how to build trust and relationships, how to communicate better.

Catching new ideas and expanding on the skills and qualities you have will allow you to fly higher. Pun intended. Don’t limit yourself to what you know or what you think you are capable of. Open your mind and let in the possibilities. Why do the same thing for the next fifty years when you can have a new experience everyday!

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Toes in the water…

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No matter what I have going on I will make it a priority to go for a pedicure. Not because I have ugly toes but because for an hour or so I can just relax and enjoy. The pretty colors are a bonus of course. LOL Also its not a crazy expensive luxury but it does make you feel a little spoiled.

I truly believe that we need to take time out of our busy daily lives to take care of ourselves. We spend so much time thinking about work and chores, life and family but how often do we think about the things that make us happy or relax?

I schedule an hour for me every 3 to 4 weeks. I dip my toes in the water and turn on the chair massager. I may take friend or I may just chill with my headphones in. Never wanting to be rude though I make sure my nail tech does or doesnt want to talk. Some times they do 🙂 I love the heated towels and the massage. If you havent tried it I highly recommend.

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Reviving the Retro: A Mid-Century Modern Makeover

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Today’s journey took us on a groovy trip back to the swinging ’60s! My client had a sleek, modern home but wanted to infuse it with the timeless charm of mid-century modern style. Armed with a collection of vintage furniture and a passion for retro vibes, we set out to transform her space into a mid-century masterpiece.

First stop: the color palette. We wanted hues that screamed “retro chic,” so we opted for rich umber and orange wood finishes to add warmth and depth to the interiors. These colors weren’t just about looks – they were about capturing the essence of an era marked by optimism and innovation.

Next up: the furniture. Mid-century modern design is all about clean lines and geometric shapes, so we brought in iconic pieces like the Eames Lounge Chair and the Noguchi Coffee Table to anchor the space. These pieces weren’t just stylish – they were functional works of art that added a touch of sophistication to every room.

But it wasn’t just about the furniture; it was about the details, too. We incorporated bold, repetitive patterns in rugs and cushions to add visual interest without overwhelming the space. And let’s not forget about the lighting fixtures – clean, angular designs that created striking visual contrasts and emphasized the room’s clean lines.

Of course, no mid-century modern makeover would be complete without the perfect color scheme. We opted for warmer tones like mustard yellows, burnt oranges, and deep reds to highlight the unique shapes and textures of our vintage pieces. Complementary colors like rich browns and greens helped maintain a cohesive look while adding pops of vibrancy throughout the space.

And the finishing touches? Geometric artwork and accents that added a touch of sophistication and visual interest to every room. Whether it was a funky wall hanging or a sleek light fixture, these little touches were what tied the whole look together and brought our mid-century vision to life.

So there you have it – a crash course in reviving the retro with mid-century modern style. By understanding the elements that define this timeless design era – from clean lines to warm tones – we were able to create a space that was both fun and functional, colorful and educational. And the best part? It’s a style that’s as relevant today as it was back in the swinging ’60s. So go ahead, dust off those vintage finds and let your inner mod shine!

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Evolving…

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What is your career plan?

Sometimes what we plan is not the path we get. I am a prime example of that. I hold 3 degrees, 2 in Interior Design and 1 in business, and in the daily I might use 35% of those towards my career. I am currently on a journey, I am evolving and growing, changing as I go.

I left an industry, corporate job that eas holding me back from becoming more. What i have learned there is I must work for myself, to control how and when I work and the income I make with no cap. I have know for a while that there is money in real estate. So I’m starting there. 

This week, I passed one of the 2 exams that I need for the next branch of my career path. I am going to get my real estate license for Nevada. I’m so close I can taste it. But it’s only a stepping stone. The long-term plan is much bigger than that.

I am determined to own and operate a business, specifically a property management business. I will have a portfolio of homes and rentals that I own and lease to bring me a steady passive income, and that will give me the opportunity to provide and enjoy the life I want.

My background is my creative side. As a branch of that property management company, I will also operate a design business specific to flipping homes. I still love design, as you might have noticed from this blog. Color is my expertise, but I love kitchen and bath, textiles, etc. You have to have a passion, and this will work hand in hand with my money maker.

It might seem simple, or it might sound boring to some. But it’s challenging to buy and sell property, to know true value, and to sell to others. I always want to be challenged and keep growing my skills.

Overall, my career path is to just keep making it happen. I have made a choice to do this for now with a plan I think will work. As I go, I will adjust. But end games are financial freedom and a career I enjoy, with lots of projects mixed with vacations. I love to cruise! So here’s to the next steps and halfway there’s!

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Creating a Coastal Retreat

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Creating a Coastal Vibe in Your Home

My inspirations come from my clients. My client yesterday wanted her home out here to feel more like here home on the east coast. How about you? Are you dreaming of a coastal retreat right in the comfort of your own home? With a few simple design choices, you can transform any space into a serene oasis that captures the essence of beach living. In this blog post, we will explore some tips and tricks for creating a coastal vibe that will transport you to the seaside, even if you’re miles away.

Maintaining an Airy Feel

The key to achieving a coastal vibe is to create an airy and light-filled space. Start by using a very light shade base for your walls, which will give the room a fresh and clean look. To add a touch of the ocean, this shade should incorporate hints of blue or green. You can expand on this through accessories such as throw pillows, curtains, or artwork. By using these hushed tones, you will create a calming and soothing atmosphere that mimics the colors of the sea.

Adding Accent Walls

To further enhance the coastal feel, consider adding accent walls in slightly deeper blues or greens, keeping them in soft muted tones. This can be achieved by using paint, wallpaper (in solid colors or patterns), or even textured wall panels. The accent wall will serve as a focal point in the room and will instantly transport you to a beachside paradise. Choose colors that complement the rest of the space and create a cohesive look.

Bringing in Beach Textures

To truly capture the essence of coastal living, incorporate beach textures into your home. One way to achieve this is by opting for worn wood vinyl flooring, or distressed wooden pieces. This type of flooring mimics the look of weathered wood found on the beach and adds a rustic touch to the space. Pair it with cream or sand-colored cabinets and shelving to create a cohesive and beach-inspired look.

Sea Glass and Shell Accents

No coastal-inspired space is complete without sea glass and shell accents. Incorporate these elements into your decor by using tiles with sea glass or shell patterns in your bathroom or kitchen. You can also display sea glass and shells in clear jars or bowls as decorative accents throughout your home. These small touches will add a touch of the beach to your space and create a sense of tranquility.

Creating a coastal vibe in your home is all about capturing the essence of the beach and bringing it indoors. By maintaining an airy feel, adding accent walls in muted tones, bringing in beach textures, and incorporating sea glass and shell accents, you can transform any space into a coastal retreat. So go ahead, embrace the coastal lifestyle and create your own little piece of paradise. And when you can, get to the actual beach and enjoy the sand under your toes!!

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Bringing the Outside In: Adding Texture to Your Home

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Many modern homes today feature smooth walls and polished granite surfaces, creating a sleek and polished look. While this aesthetic can be visually appealing, it can also feel a bit one-dimensional and lacking in character. If you’re looking to add some depth and visual interest to your living space, consider incorporating different textures into your home decor.

1. Incorporating Slate and Rock

One way to introduce texture into your home is by using slate or rock accents. For example, you can add a slate or rock facade around your indoor fireplace to create a focal point in your living room. The natural variations in color and texture will instantly add visual interest and make your fireplace stand out. In the bathroom, consider using river rock tiles for your shower floor or as a border to add a touch of nature and create a spa-like atmosphere. In the kitchen, slate countertops can provide a pop of color and an edgy, contemporary look. Opt for honed finished granite with a weathered edge to add a touch of rustic charm to your kitchen island or bar area.

2. Adding Texture to Floors

If you’re tired of the smooth and uniform look of traditional flooring materials, consider opting for rustic or weathered wood or tile. These materials add warmth, character, and texture to your floors. Weathered wood flooring, for example, features a distressed look that adds a sense of history and charm to any room. Rustic tile with a textured finish can create a visually interesting pattern and add depth to your floors. Whether you choose wood or tile, textured flooring can make a significant impact on the overall look and feel of your home.

3. Embracing Natural Elements

Another way to bring texture into your home is by incorporating natural elements. Consider using woven or textured fabrics for your curtains, throw pillows, and upholstery to add depth and visual interest to your living room or bedroom. You can also bring in natural materials such as jute or sisal rugs to add texture to your floors. Additionally, consider incorporating plants and greenery into your home decor. Not only do plants add a touch of nature, but their varied shapes and textures can also bring a refreshing and organic feel to any space.

In conclusion, adding texture to your home is a great way to bring the outdoors in and create a more visually interesting and dynamic living space. Whether you choose to incorporate slate and rock accents, textured flooring, or natural elements, these design choices will add depth and character to your home decor. So, don’t be afraid to experiment and have fun with different textures to create a unique and inviting atmosphere in your home.

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The things you can control..

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This is one thing that I absolutely struggle with. Sometimes my thoughts get dragged down into the what ifs and the maybes or the worries that sneak in during the day. I do my best to focus on the here and now but every once in a while I start thinking about the negative things that can happen.

Right now, I am working on my next goal. That is my real estate license. I went to take the state exam last week and their computer systems went down. I was in a group of eight people at that center that had to leave without taking the test and reschedule. I had already waited two weeks to schedule that appointment. My mind has taken me down the negative road. The what ifs are creeping in. What if I cant get in for another month? What if I cant apply for a job thats right for me if I dont have that license? What if I pass one part but not the other?

These are valid questions but they are future scenarios. I have no idea what the reschedule timeline will look like. What I do know is that I have extra time to study and can be more prepared to pass both parts of the test when it is scheduled. Knowing ill be more prepared makes me positive vs worrying about the rest makes it negative,

We dont know what road blocks, downed computers or life events will come our way. There is absolutely no way we can plan what the future has in store but we can work towards what we want and what we can control. Control your thoughts to look for the positive, to work on the things you definitely do. I will be studying tonight. I will be posting blogs and I will be looking for real estate opportunities. I am positive that I am on a better road even with the bumps along the way. It helps so much to narrow your focus to what you can change. Hope you guys will focus on them too!!

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