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Not Now, but Soon Enough

Ok maybe not almost there but stay with me. As I mentioned before this has been a really tough month or so, on all sides. I am never one to stay down long and I honestly don’t know where I get the drive or the stubbornness to keep going, even if I stumble. I am sure I am not the only one that turns to instagram for distraction. I have two accounts on that app. One personal and one for my business. Both have a different set of accounts that I follow. One for nonsense and one for inspiration.

The title of this post is a quote from an account that has blown up since the beginning of last year. this gentlemen decided that he was tired of his overweight lifestyle and did something about it. Posting uncomfortable things and being accountable, really working on the underlying mental struggles it takes to change not only your health but your core principles to be better.

I came across one of his videos yesterday. In this video, he was talking about the urge to go in to a favorite pizza place, how just seeing the building created a sense of need and the mental battle began. He had to tell himself that it didn’t work for what he was trying to accomplish now but that doesn’t mean never again. “Not Now, But Soon Enough”

To some, it might seem silly that a delay in ordering a pizza can be profound but, its about changing your mindset to align with the version you are now and the version your are striving to be. Giving a deeper priority to the goals and dreams you have set, than to the temporary easy things you want in the moment.

I admit I am not the best at delayed gratification. I struggle with what I want, what it costs and the truth that tomorrow isn’t promised. I would say sometimes that becomes my excuse for just giving in and doing what I want, eating what I want, buying what I want. Sometimes my emotions lock me in the now when I should be focused on my goals.

So when I start struggling with my current issues, like the pain in my legs, the breakup doubts and the financial struggles I am going to use that phrase. “Not Now, But Soon Enough” Soon enough I will set myself up for the big wins and the version of me that I am becoming.

I left a comment on that post just to show this gentlemen that these random thoughts we have and share do get to the right people. And I have seen the change and growth in him over the past year. Everyone has their own demons and dark days but there are others out there that are going through similar battles and are looking for examples of people who have made it or are making it to the other side. My hope is that he will keep going not only for him but for the people out there that need it. And that I can make a difference here by sharing these thoughts as well.

If you are on instagram and would like to follow his account is http://www.instagram.com/i.am.done.being.obese

I am on instagram also at http://www.instagram.com/thedistracteddamsel

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Adjusting course…

Here we are in month 4 of 2026. And for me I feel like a whole year has been shoved in the timespan of 3 months. I have had days that I was riding high, nothing could stop me and life was rainbows and unicorns. On the flip side, I have had days that have felt like the gates of my personal hell have opened and that’s it. That’s all I can handle, I’m done.

This last month especially has been super difficult for me on every level possible. Physically, mentally, emotionally, financially. I got blasted on every side. For something that is going to benefit my health in the long run, I had some vein procedures done in my legs. My veins were not opening and closing as they should and were causing pain and heaviness, not circulating right. Corrected now by laser treatment, I am still in recovery and by 2 pm daily I’m just tired.

During all of that, timing be damned, I was blindsided and broken up with. I realize my last post on here was a fun date that we went on. Not exactly sure how I feel about that now in hindsight. The weight of emotion on top of the physical weight has been crippling some days. I feel sad and angry, confused, upset that I had no say, that it was just done. I am still processing that while trying to focus on my health and the only thing I really have control over.

I have had some big wins when it comes to my business. I have had new clients. repeat clients, new opportunities for collaborations and even have connected with new contractors that hopefully will be a long term partnership, profitable too. I have created digital content and I have create a physical product to sell. My foundation now is solid.

I am not sure any of this will interest my readers but all of this is to show that I am a real person. A human that has to roll with the punches and despite being in the struggle bus is still trying to move forward. I am adjusting back into just me and focusing on what I want and where I am going. I hope to get back to consistently posting and sharing the new things I will be doing for me.

If you are going through it too, know you aren’t the only one. Know that breaking has to happen to build a better foundation. To give you the opportunity to do more and be stronger. My legs have been poked and burned and day by day I am walking and feeling stronger. It will happen.

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Candlelight Concert Date

January for me was a month of fun dates 🙂 This latest one was a Christmas present. I got 2 tickets to a candlelight concert and it just so happened that the one that really appealed to me was Lord of the Rings and Game of Thrones. Oh, oh! And it fell on my birthday 🙂

I am going to link the website here for you to check out but its a musical program that goes to different cities and venues with fun themes and musical knowledge.

Nothing says Las Vegas like a venue in the downtown industrial village behind the strip. This is the small location that they set up for the show. You enter into a candle lit space front and center there is the stage. This space was maybe for 200 ish people. mostly row seating but there were some table options for special tickets I would assume. They also offered a few drink choices.

The four musicians told us a little bit about themselves through out the set. They explained some of the themes in the music, info about the composers and offered up some light humor. Overall it was very nice for the time and overall vibe. For this one, I dont know if i would consider it a fancy night out but I did enjoy the show.

I have all the Lord of the Rings music down but I was pretty surprised that I could not remember most of the Game of Thrones. Now the intro song is on repeat as an ear worm. lol

I really hope that I will get to go to more fun random things this year. We are moving into February and I can wait to see what dates are next. Comment if you have ever been to one of these or which one was your favorite!

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My new goal = Monthly day dates!

Ok so maybe this isn’t something that needs to be a goal. But after the good day that we had yesterday, I definitely think that I need more. I have had issues lately with my work schedule and my weekly commitments. Its been tough to find rest time and get everything done. And with boyfriend off on weekends and me working on weekends we don’t get much time.

Boyfriend has perks with his credit card and that includes a perk for show tickets. We wanted to check out the Wizard of Oz at the Sphere (we live in Vegas). It just so happened that he was off for MLK day and there was a showing we could book. Things came together. And since we had the day, we got to take advantage of it.

Morning was started with pickup up my nephew so Grandma and Grandpa could watch him for the day. But breakfast first. We all got to meet and try a new breakfast spot. Asher got a pancake the size of grandpa’s head and we ordered Holey Donuts for the table. The food was good but it was also the first time that boyfriend and I spent some just us time with my parents. Not going to lie, I was a little nervous but it did make me all warm and fuzzy.

We had a little time between breakfast and heading out so we hit a few stores and did a few projects around his house. I love feeling needed and truly do not mind lending a hand. He is super cute with his to do list and just watching his brain run through things some times just makes me smile 🙂

Getting down to the show was a bit of a hassle, the strip always is. The main walkway to the Sphere was closed off due to the convention that was in town. So we had to take a bit of a back road scenic route around the convention center and under the train and skywalk. Not exactly the best planning for a main event center, to funnel that many people thru essentially a side street.

I wont go too much into the wonderful world of Oz but I will say this. The Sphere definitely plays tricks with your mind and perception, I can clearly see how many people have issues with vertigo in there. You are up so high, it is steep and the screen feels like it is moving around you. The show is well done to be complete with out being as long as the movie. The effects from wind to “falling snow” and apples gives you an immersive experience. The colors were fantastic and the music is true to the original. But the merch?? extremely overpriced.

We wrapped up the show and once we got our land legs back we took a stroll through the Venetian casino. It is supposed to give Venice vibes with the Grand Canal Shoppes and the gondolas. I think its a bit cheesy but it was just nice to have no where to be and just enjoy sightseeing and time together.

The rest of the night was relatively boring. We grabbed some burgers and hit a few other stores in the neighborhood. Then we had to get the meal prep for the week going, weekends are over so fast. I also had to go relieve the grandparents. Its good for all of us that Asher gets to spend time with them and right now everyone really enjoys being together.

Overall, the day just moved at an enjoyable pace. We had a few plans for the day and we had some free time to just chill. Looking from the outside, most would probably say “that’s it?” Nothing crazy romantic, nothing crazy exciting. But for me it was a break from work and from all the business stuff that I am trying to do. Balancing work and half time parenting with fun and rest and couple time, its hard most days. So I really cherish the good days in the middle. We have one more date day coming up for my birthday. I cant wait for next week.

What are your dates like? Do you go out for dinner or do you make it a whole day? Where are you going or what new thing are you trying together? Share with me and others something that made you feel the fun or close with your partner 🙂

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From Las Vegas to New Jersey

Daily writing prompt
Think back on your most memorable road trip.

This one is an easy one for me. Almost 15 years ago, my sister and I took a 2 week road trip across country and I could definitely do it again. I was moving back east for college and I wanted to do something fun. We planned a route on a paper map (yes paper) and planned and found some interesting stops along the way.

We are very random when it comes to what keeps our interest. There are famous places along the way and just nonsense. Ill break these down.

Salt Palace in Salt Lake Utah.

Old Faithful in Yellowstone

Crazy Horse Memorial Sioux Falls in South Dakota -we saw Rushmore too.

Pizza Doctors in La Crosse WI- we did see the worlds largest six pack but I cant find the image 🙂

Palace #2 Corn place made somewhere in the midwest

And Lambeau Field

We have taken other road trips since but this one sticks in my head. We had a plan and a timeline but we hit random places as they came up. We got rained out of a camping site on one of the days, but mom had stuffed a visa in the glove box that covered the hotel.

We also camped over night in a teepee, found the most random store with a million teddy bears for a collection, hit mall of America, went to the Rock n Roll hall of fame and picked up my cousin in Michigan.

I really hope that sooner or later we will plan and take another one. There are many road still to take and places in the US that I want to visit. If you have some worlds largest, or killer places to stop to eat, or great views, Drop them here. I will add to the possibilities list!!

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Thru Design and Color

Daily writing prompt
How are you creative?

Part of me, this blog included has always been creative. Not in the create stories or discover new things way. But more in the home and style way. Or maybe even in the arts and crafts, homemade Halloween outfit way.

I like to see new home design trends and to build new color palettes. I love to see other peoples homes and offices and see from others what catches my eye. Sometimes it is 100% trial and error. Not every design will work or flow.

But for this week, I let the creative kind of run free. A friend of mine has a massage studio that she just started to rent out and she wanted to create some flare. We looked at a couple of different ideas and then we put our own spin on them. Not quite out of the box but we liked the look.

She wanted to keep the main wall color and add in gold and black. I thought we needed one more light color but since we didnt get the full picture till the day of we worked with 3. We positioned the tape on the wall as we went and we intentionally kept the gold over spray to give the black some dimension. Other than the headache from the spray paint I think it turned out great.

Happy client, fun project. Hoping to do more of these this next year!

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Seems to me its running out

Daily writing prompt
Do you need time?

I cant seem to get a handle on the way time is flying by. We are at the bottom innings of 2025 and I feel like I am one run behind the winning team. I’m not much of a baseball fan unless I am sitting in the stadium but I hope that metaphor makes enough sense.

I am t-minus 9 days away from my 3rd and last vacation of the year and I am mentally and physically not ready for the much needed break. You see, I have been extra focused on not slowing down business because business is slow. That might sound weird but some companies lay of the gas for the fourth quarter while others double down. I am doubling down on my marketing efforts so that business is still coming in and it springs forward come 2025. Slow times are great for system and strategy building, refocusing etc.

This week, 5 out of 7 days have color consults. I am up from two a week to five. New ads on yelp and facebook, google and even instagram have been gaining momentum. I am only looking at those four socials and I am finding the time it takes even with AI is hard for me. I have list of ideas and minutes to get things up between meetings, school pick ups and parents having surgeries. I need much more time to keep the momentum going with new inspiration and real time talk. Oh yeah and sleep. Its important but Im not getting much lately.

I havent hit all my goals for October, that just ended. Or the ones that I am working towards for end of year. I see Christmas approaching so fast and I cant seem to get past work to enjoy the things that are coming up. At the bare minimum I plan to turn business off for one week of rest and day drinking on a cruise. And then as we get closer to Dec 25th a family cookie night.

If any one has found a way to slow time down, please, please, please let me know. I am doing my best to do one thing at a time and focus on one day at a time. Enjoying the fun times with my nephew and enjoying the quiet times of reflection. But I legit cant wait to see bright blue clear waters and a bahama mamma in my hand. Hope time is working in your favor 🙂

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Is Lime Wash Coming Back?

What Is Limewash? A Modern, Warm Take on a Timeless Technique

Limewash is one of the oldest paint finishes in the world, used for thousands of years by cultures like the Greeks and Romans. It’s made from natural materials—slaked lime, water, and mineral pigments—so it creates a soft, matte finish that feels warm, calming, and breathable. Unlike regular paint, limewash actually sinks into the surface, giving it that cloudy, layered look everyone loves right now.

How Limewash Works

Here’s the modern homeowner version:

  • Prep matters. The walls need to be clean and smooth so the limewash can absorb properly.
  • It’s mixed by hand. Lime powder and water are blended with natural pigments to create your custom color.
  • It’s applied in thin layers. Each coat dries with soft movement and texture, giving the space a cozy, lived-in feel.
  • It ages beautifully. Limewash isn’t supposed to look perfect — that’s the charm.

Why Homeowners Are Loving It Right Now

Limewash fits perfectly with today’s warm, modern aesthetic. It adds depth and softness without feeling heavy or overly textured. It also pairs beautifully with:

  • Warm greys — cozy, elegant, and calm
  • Soft lavenders — subtle, modern, and surprisingly neutral
  • Natural woods + warm metals — gold, champagne bronze, walnut

If you want walls that feel warm, relaxed, and effortlessly elevated, limewash is an incredible option.

Trending Colors for a Warm Modern Home

For clients searching for a modern-but-soft vibe, I often recommend:

  • Warm greys with gentle movement
  • Lavender-gray washes for a serene, elevated feel
  • Soft clay and mushroom tones for a more organic look

These tones glow beautifully in natural light and instantly make a room feel more intentional.

The Bottom Line

Limewash gives you a finish that looks high-end without feeling fussy — perfect for homeowners who want something modern, warm, and full of character. It’s a timeless technique that works beautifully in today’s design styles.

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Curious, Smart and Funny

Daily writing prompt
Describe a family member.

There’s this cool kid that I know. He’s the best nephew anyone could have and I get to spend three days a week with him. Sometimes those days are long or busy or even obnoxious but I wouldnt trade having him around while he thinks Im the fun Auntie.

Curious

This little dude has me on the ropes all the time. I never know what he is going to ask or want to do on the daily. He is super curious about everything, from owls to food to what I am doing for work. If he is interested in something he asks me to look up images or videos on youtube. This week the topics were Owls and and new ride he wants to go on at the pumpkin patch, the Zipper. He says it isnt for him yet but it will be when he is bigger. 🙂 Always more to learn.

Smart

Although we might not be the smartest of adults, we really try to teach Booger to think thru what he wants to do, how he does his homework, how he treats his friends. This kid isnt a genius mathematician but math is his favorite and hes getting really good at the harder word problems. He can read a room and chime in with our adult conversations, does get him in trouble sometimes but he listens and learns so much. I have watched him think through logically what order he wants to do chores, homework, dinner and bath time- and he gave me reasons for why the order. I forget sometimes that I am talking to a 7 year old because he talks so smart. And reading?! He has met his semester goal in two months and should really be reading at a 3rd or 4th grade level. Makes me proud.

Funny

There is no doubt that Booger has inherited our sense of humor and sarcasm. From the c’mon Bruhs to the dad jokes this kid cracks me up. He has an infectious giggle, the best when he cracks up at his own jokes. He pays around with us and has one liners that just hit right on queue. His little personality is so fun to watch and I really hope he keeps up the quick wit and the come backs.

I have other family around me. My parents, sister/brother in law and extended, all of which I love and enjoy their company. But for right now, seeing this little dude so proud of learning to ride a bike with no training wheels, crush his reading, enjoy being a kid, helping me with the instructions and bake together, well, that’s the fun part of my day. Hope you have a kid to watch, yours or a niece or nephew. We all need that kid life in big or little doses.

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Got to go for a High Rise job this week.

I got called for a client that just purchased a high rise condo on the north west side of the strip. It is always fun for me to get to go into these higher cleintele locations and see just what is out there waiting for me. This couple just wanted to keep things simple, two maybe three colors. And that is what we did. But it gave me some other thoughts for those that might have their own project like this.

So below are the five tips I came up with if you or someone you know has the opportunity to enjoy the view from above. Hope you will pass them on 🙂

5 Tips for Redecorating a High-Rise Condo

This week’s inspiration came from helping a power couple redesign their new high-rise overlooking the Las Vegas Strip. They wanted to capture the energy of the city without overwhelming the space — elegant by day, electric by night. Here’s how we did it (and how you can, too!):

Tip #1 Neutral walls let the view shine.
For their living area, we kept the walls by the windows a warm, soft neutral so the Strip lights became the main feature.
👉 Try this: If you have a stunning city view, go subtle on color near the windows — it naturally frames the skyline like a piece of art.

Tip #2 Lighting is your secret weapon.
Their condo had great windows but limited overhead light, so we layered floor lamps, sconces, and pendants to keep things bright and moody when needed.
👉 Try this: Mix lighting sources — ambient, accent, and task — to create dimension and highlight your favorite areas.

Tip #3 Pops of color bring personality.
We used deep navy and gold accents to reflect the nighttime city vibe, adding a playful balance to the neutral backdrop.
👉 Try this: Add bold color through art, pillows, or one statement wall — it keeps things lively without feeling cluttered.

Tip #4 Scale matters — less is luxe.
Instead of oversized sectionals, we chose sleek seating for four and a compact dining table for two that still feels open and inviting.
👉 Try this: Choose pieces that fit your space comfortably — airy silhouettes and smaller groupings keep the room feeling spacious.

Tip #5 Mirror the magic of your view.
We tied in the skyline with metallic artwork that shimmered like the Strip lights at night.
👉 Try this: Select artwork or décor that echoes your surroundings — whether that’s city lights, desert tones, or sky-inspired abstracts.

Let your space tell your story — balance sophistication with the sparkle of the city you love.