Ever come so far and then hit a bump or a road block? Does it ever make you want to stop and find a different path? What makes the path the wrong one?
Every day I have to keep looking towards my goal. I have been side tracked, sidelined and ready to quit. But 100 % it is a mental game and I have to keep focusing on the future I want.
I worry everyday that I am not making the right steps or taking the right turns. I worry that I cant see what is in store. I worry that I am not tough enough mentally or physically to make it happen.
But I know I am a stubborn person. I know what I want. I know I’m not going to give up. So the future should worry about me!!
What I mean by parachuting is keeping an open mind to learn new things, try new things and experience new things. I have heard this quote several times and I still like it because I am passionate about personal growth and building.
We have a short time in this life to grow and explore. This world however has so many unique places and offers so many ways of life. One person could never experience them all even with ten life times. My goal is to get as much out of it as I can with what time I have.
That doesn’t mean that I am always on a plane, in a boat, riding a train to whatever stop is next. I am still working on that luxury but while I dream of those places I read about them and learn about different people. Experiences arent limited to places. A stranger can show you something that might inspire you, a conversation change your mind or opinion, teach you something new.
We are taught the beliefs and habits of our parents, friends and family that surround us. Having an open mind also means being open to how others live their lives or their beliefs. I have had many conversations that have had profound effects on me because I received a different perspective from a trusted friend. I have learned new ways how to work, how to build trust and relationships, how to communicate better.
Catching new ideas and expanding on the skills and qualities you have will allow you to fly higher. Pun intended. Don’t limit yourself to what you know or what you think you are capable of. Open your mind and let in the possibilities. Why do the same thing for the next fifty years when you can have a new experience everyday!
No matter what I have going on I will make it a priority to go for a pedicure. Not because I have ugly toes but because for an hour or so I can just relax and enjoy. The pretty colors are a bonus of course. LOL Also its not a crazy expensive luxury but it does make you feel a little spoiled.
I truly believe that we need to take time out of our busy daily lives to take care of ourselves. We spend so much time thinking about work and chores, life and family but how often do we think about the things that make us happy or relax?
I schedule an hour for me every 3 to 4 weeks. I dip my toes in the water and turn on the chair massager. I may take friend or I may just chill with my headphones in. Never wanting to be rude though I make sure my nail tech does or doesnt want to talk. Some times they do 🙂 I love the heated towels and the massage. If you havent tried it I highly recommend.
Today’s journey took us on a groovy trip back to the swinging ’60s! My client had a sleek, modern home but wanted to infuse it with the timeless charm of mid-century modern style. Armed with a collection of vintage furniture and a passion for retro vibes, we set out to transform her space into a mid-century masterpiece.
First stop: the color palette. We wanted hues that screamed “retro chic,” so we opted for rich umber and orange wood finishes to add warmth and depth to the interiors. These colors weren’t just about looks – they were about capturing the essence of an era marked by optimism and innovation.
Next up: the furniture. Mid-century modern design is all about clean lines and geometric shapes, so we brought in iconic pieces like the Eames Lounge Chair and the Noguchi Coffee Table to anchor the space. These pieces weren’t just stylish – they were functional works of art that added a touch of sophistication to every room.
But it wasn’t just about the furniture; it was about the details, too. We incorporated bold, repetitive patterns in rugs and cushions to add visual interest without overwhelming the space. And let’s not forget about the lighting fixtures – clean, angular designs that created striking visual contrasts and emphasized the room’s clean lines.
Of course, no mid-century modern makeover would be complete without the perfect color scheme. We opted for warmer tones like mustard yellows, burnt oranges, and deep reds to highlight the unique shapes and textures of our vintage pieces. Complementary colors like rich browns and greens helped maintain a cohesive look while adding pops of vibrancy throughout the space.
And the finishing touches? Geometric artwork and accents that added a touch of sophistication and visual interest to every room. Whether it was a funky wall hanging or a sleek light fixture, these little touches were what tied the whole look together and brought our mid-century vision to life.
So there you have it – a crash course in reviving the retro with mid-century modern style. By understanding the elements that define this timeless design era – from clean lines to warm tones – we were able to create a space that was both fun and functional, colorful and educational. And the best part? It’s a style that’s as relevant today as it was back in the swinging ’60s. So go ahead, dust off those vintage finds and let your inner mod shine!
Sometimes what we plan is not the path we get. I am a prime example of that. I hold 3 degrees, 2 in Interior Design and 1 in business, and in the daily I might use 35% of those towards my career. I am currently on a journey, I am evolving and growing, changing as I go.
I left an industry, corporate job that eas holding me back from becoming more. What i have learned there is I must work for myself, to control how and when I work and the income I make with no cap. I have know for a while that there is money in real estate. So I’m starting there.
This week, I passed one of the 2 exams that I need for the next branch of my career path. I am going to get my real estate license for Nevada. I’m so close I can taste it. But it’s only a stepping stone. The long-term plan is much bigger than that.
I am determined to own and operate a business, specifically a property management business. I will have a portfolio of homes and rentals that I own and lease to bring me a steady passive income, and that will give me the opportunity to provide and enjoy the life I want.
My background is my creative side. As a branch of that property management company, I will also operate a design business specific to flipping homes. I still love design, as you might have noticed from this blog. Color is my expertise, but I love kitchen and bath, textiles, etc. You have to have a passion, and this will work hand in hand with my money maker.
It might seem simple, or it might sound boring to some. But it’s challenging to buy and sell property, to know true value, and to sell to others. I always want to be challenged and keep growing my skills.
Overall, my career path is to just keep making it happen. I have made a choice to do this for now with a plan I think will work. As I go, I will adjust. But end games are financial freedom and a career I enjoy, with lots of projects mixed with vacations. I love to cruise! So here’s to the next steps and halfway there’s!
My inspirations come from my clients. My client yesterday wanted her home out here to feel more like here home on the east coast. How about you? Are you dreaming of a coastal retreat right in the comfort of your own home? With a few simple design choices, you can transform any space into a serene oasis that captures the essence of beach living. In this blog post, we will explore some tips and tricks for creating a coastal vibe that will transport you to the seaside, even if you’re miles away.
Maintaining an Airy Feel
The key to achieving a coastal vibe is to create an airy and light-filled space. Start by using a very light shade base for your walls, which will give the room a fresh and clean look. To add a touch of the ocean, this shade should incorporate hints of blue or green. You can expand on this through accessories such as throw pillows, curtains, or artwork. By using these hushed tones, you will create a calming and soothing atmosphere that mimics the colors of the sea.
Adding Accent Walls
To further enhance the coastal feel, consider adding accent walls in slightly deeper blues or greens, keeping them in soft muted tones. This can be achieved by using paint, wallpaper (in solid colors or patterns), or even textured wall panels. The accent wall will serve as a focal point in the room and will instantly transport you to a beachside paradise. Choose colors that complement the rest of the space and create a cohesive look.
Bringing in Beach Textures
To truly capture the essence of coastal living, incorporate beach textures into your home. One way to achieve this is by opting for worn wood vinyl flooring, or distressed wooden pieces. This type of flooring mimics the look of weathered wood found on the beach and adds a rustic touch to the space. Pair it with cream or sand-colored cabinets and shelving to create a cohesive and beach-inspired look.
Sea Glass and Shell Accents
No coastal-inspired space is complete without sea glass and shell accents. Incorporate these elements into your decor by using tiles with sea glass or shell patterns in your bathroom or kitchen. You can also display sea glass and shells in clear jars or bowls as decorative accents throughout your home. These small touches will add a touch of the beach to your space and create a sense of tranquility.
Creating a coastal vibe in your home is all about capturing the essence of the beach and bringing it indoors. By maintaining an airy feel, adding accent walls in muted tones, bringing in beach textures, and incorporating sea glass and shell accents, you can transform any space into a coastal retreat. So go ahead, embrace the coastal lifestyle and create your own little piece of paradise. And when you can, get to the actual beach and enjoy the sand under your toes!!
Many modern homes today feature smooth walls and polished granite surfaces, creating a sleek and polished look. While this aesthetic can be visually appealing, it can also feel a bit one-dimensional and lacking in character. If you’re looking to add some depth and visual interest to your living space, consider incorporating different textures into your home decor.
1. Incorporating Slate and Rock
One way to introduce texture into your home is by using slate or rock accents. For example, you can add a slate or rock facade around your indoor fireplace to create a focal point in your living room. The natural variations in color and texture will instantly add visual interest and make your fireplace stand out. In the bathroom, consider using river rock tiles for your shower floor or as a border to add a touch of nature and create a spa-like atmosphere. In the kitchen, slate countertops can provide a pop of color and an edgy, contemporary look. Opt for honed finished granite with a weathered edge to add a touch of rustic charm to your kitchen island or bar area.
2. Adding Texture to Floors
If you’re tired of the smooth and uniform look of traditional flooring materials, consider opting for rustic or weathered wood or tile. These materials add warmth, character, and texture to your floors. Weathered wood flooring, for example, features a distressed look that adds a sense of history and charm to any room. Rustic tile with a textured finish can create a visually interesting pattern and add depth to your floors. Whether you choose wood or tile, textured flooring can make a significant impact on the overall look and feel of your home.
3. Embracing Natural Elements
Another way to bring texture into your home is by incorporating natural elements. Consider using woven or textured fabrics for your curtains, throw pillows, and upholstery to add depth and visual interest to your living room or bedroom. You can also bring in natural materials such as jute or sisal rugs to add texture to your floors. Additionally, consider incorporating plants and greenery into your home decor. Not only do plants add a touch of nature, but their varied shapes and textures can also bring a refreshing and organic feel to any space.
In conclusion, adding texture to your home is a great way to bring the outdoors in and create a more visually interesting and dynamic living space. Whether you choose to incorporate slate and rock accents, textured flooring, or natural elements, these design choices will add depth and character to your home decor. So, don’t be afraid to experiment and have fun with different textures to create a unique and inviting atmosphere in your home.
This is one thing that I absolutely struggle with. Sometimes my thoughts get dragged down into the what ifs and the maybes or the worries that sneak in during the day. I do my best to focus on the here and now but every once in a while I start thinking about the negative things that can happen.
Right now, I am working on my next goal. That is my real estate license. I went to take the state exam last week and their computer systems went down. I was in a group of eight people at that center that had to leave without taking the test and reschedule. I had already waited two weeks to schedule that appointment. My mind has taken me down the negative road. The what ifs are creeping in. What if I cant get in for another month? What if I cant apply for a job thats right for me if I dont have that license? What if I pass one part but not the other?
These are valid questions but they are future scenarios. I have no idea what the reschedule timeline will look like. What I do know is that I have extra time to study and can be more prepared to pass both parts of the test when it is scheduled. Knowing ill be more prepared makes me positive vs worrying about the rest makes it negative,
We dont know what road blocks, downed computers or life events will come our way. There is absolutely no way we can plan what the future has in store but we can work towards what we want and what we can control. Control your thoughts to look for the positive, to work on the things you definitely do. I will be studying tonight. I will be posting blogs and I will be looking for real estate opportunities. I am positive that I am on a better road even with the bumps along the way. It helps so much to narrow your focus to what you can change. Hope you guys will focus on them too!!
Daily writing prompt
What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?
Yesterday I posted my 100th post on this platform. And while that may not seem like a lot to some, that was a lot of work for me. I started this in January of 2022. That’s right. More than 2 years ago. There were periods where I just didn’t have things to write and there were times when I really got into it. And of course there were days when I wondered who is going to read anything I have to write?
Well despite the self doubt, I do have a few subscribers and now that I am in business I hope to inspire more. Over the last 7 years, I have done a great deal of self help. I have listened to audios, read self help books, been on teams with great leadership, found strength within. You name it, I have probably done some form of it. But somewhere in there, I have heard that getting to the first 100 of anything is the most difficult. You cant expect things to take off from your second post. or even your 50th.
So when I started this, my main thing was that I wasn’t going to quit or give up until I hit 100. We you hit publish and look at the posts, its hard not to think about getting to a goal faster. the last 10 post I really wanted to speed through just so I can say I made it. It is a small accomplishment but now I am motivated to keep going. My new goal is to do another 100 posts in 6 months. I feel that with my business and new topics coming up I am on a roll and can do this!
I hope that you will join me and interact with the posts that are coming! As I get more clients I am inspired to share their design challenges or the palettes that we come up with. As I continue to press forward and learn more I will also share the encouraging thoughts or word I hear. Daily life is our best inspiration and our best teacher. Come with me as I build more clients and color more spaces!! 200 posts here we come!
Okay, Okay it might sound a bit cheesy. Most of the time when some one says that word a wand is waved or a rabbit is pulled from a hat. But what most people don’t know is the original Hebrew meaning of the word. And it goes much deeper than a magic wand.
In the original Hebrew, the word Abracadabra translates to “I create as I speak”. This resonates with me more even now that I am working on myself and this new business. The deep meaning truly is about the way that we speak to ourselves and our belief that we have a purpose.
Everyday, I remind myself that I am working toward a brighter future. For me, I am creating a business that will create a good life for my family. I am creating relationships that make me stronger. I am speaking into the universe, while visualizing and giving my best effort to build what a see.
Its a version, at least to me of “speaking your truth”. What I want out of this life is to know that I did the things I said I would to feel how I wanted. I am happy, I am blessed, I am loved. I built a home. I built a family. I made my dreams reality. Keep telling yourself the things you want to change, to do, or to have. Speak it into being.
Daily writing prompt
Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?
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