I don’t look forward to fall for pumpkin spice lattes. I look forward to NFL football. 32 teams, 16 games a week, 4 downs, one Super Bowl! Its a fun game to watch and cheer for. But really I think the best part is bringing people together, whether its friends and family at home or strangers in a bar or in the stands.
The last couple of years I haven’t been able to go to an actual game. There are a few this season that I am considering going to. I could see my team the LA Chargers here in Vegas at Raiders Stadium but who wants to see the Raiders? They are in my division so we are natural enemies haha. I would rather drive to LA to cheer with my Charger family.
Tonight I am watching at home, not feeling to good today. But I checked to make sure my dad has got the game on. His team the Detroit Lions are going up against the Super Bowl defending champs the Kansas City Chiefs. As we speak, Lions drew first blood with the first official touchdown of the season. It’s on.
I have many fond memories of games and watch parties, chili cook offs, etc. The friends and family have changed over the years, just like the players on the field. Life goes on, and new plays are called, injuries happen, and strength is built. See where I’m going with this? I won’t go there, I know you get the metaphor. Anyway, I hope you grab your team, grab your snacks, grab your drinks, turn it up, and root for your NFL team! For me it’s Go Chargers!!
Hey guys! It’s Labor Day Weekend, what are you up to? Hope you have some fun things planned as it’s our last summer holiday. I am lucky and this time I am able to take a four day weekend.
Usually, I would plan all four days with events but lately I realize I need to take it a bit slower and just enjoy the time. I spent the first day of it napping while listening to the thunderstorms outside. Nevada is finally getting those monsoon rains. Instagram is lit up with the memes about floods in Vegas. Believe it or not, it does rain in the desert lol
Last night I was able to attend my friend Amanda’s bridal shower. I have told you about or Colorado excursions before. She is getting married in November and I can’t wait to attend. Her bridal shower was at a fancy restaurant at a hotel on the other side of town. The outdoor seating of the restaurant was surrounded by an artificial pond with a waterfall, twinkle lights and coy fish. Definitely the romantic atmosphere for the happy couple. We enjoyed friends, family, toasts, and cheers. Not to mention a buffet of delicious Italian dishes and desserts.
Today is different. Today I tried to get something done for me while still relaxing. I worked on my business things like my website and my updated contacts. Plan is to get the new website fully functional and running by end of the month. As for contacts, I definitely recommend keeping personal and professional contacts in good standing. You never know when someone can give you an opportunity. Easy to do from my laptop all while watching a movie marathon. So far it has been throwback classics. The Three Amigos, The Blues Brothers, The Goonies. “Goonies never say die!”
None of that is over the top party weekend. Tomorrow I am getting out the grill, heating up the hot tub and having a few friends over. We will crack a few cold ones, splash in the pool, probably have some laughs. With no restrictions or plans just lazing around. But really that is the best when you can just enjoy the quality time. I am going to soak in the sun and the stress free day and be ready to go back to work Tuesday refreshed. This awaits me tomorrow 🙂
All I can say is try to find your relax this weekend. Maybe tomorrow is your only downtime. Don’t feel pressured like I have before to have something minute to minute. Kick back, have a drink, take a nap, play a round of volleyball with friends. But just roll with the day, no plans just chill. Have a good one!
Tonight, I am going to keep it short and say push through it! And by it, I mean that excuse that is keeping you from what you want to do or what you need to do. It is easier said than done, I 100% know it. And I won’t lie to you. Sometimes, I let the excuses get me, and the next day, I kick myself for it. Who else? Anyone?
This morning, I woke up happy as a clam, bouncing and singing and just getting thru my day. Then orders came in, phones rang, life drama came, and threw a punch. It really just knocked the wind out of my sails. I got home tired and defeated, just wanting to binge tv or read and eat something sweet.
But as I sat there, I looked at my calendar on the wall. It’s counting days til my cruise. It also keeps track of other things like days I work out and days I work on my business. And you know what I saw, I saw blank squares this week. One would be ok but not two or three. I couldn’t let today win. I had to win the day.
Took me a few mental minutes to talk and remind myself that I am working on change. Change takes discipline and mental toughness to work when you are tired or to eat an orange when you want a chocolate shake. I snapped out of it and was able to accomplish a lot in the last few hours. Cleaned my room, did some new layouts for my Etsy Shop, and worked on my website. But the toughest thing for me today was getting in that 30 minute work out! Had to literally punch my way thru it. I huffed and puffed, but getting to the stretches at the end was so worth it because I didn’t give in or give up. And here’s the proof. Just a little over an hour ago.
Somedays, if you make it home and to bed, that is all you can do. Some days are rougher than others, but are you at your max? Is there more you can give so that you get something out of the day? Is there gas in your tank you could use to go just a bit farther? Don’t let that Debbie downer or Nancy naysayer voice in your head give you excuses not to give it your all. Push through my friends, we have more to give!! We have more to accomplish!!
The classic that many know and enjoy. The wizards and rogues, goblins, and bards. All of the magical and mythical creatures on a campaign to defeat the enemy. Attacking with force, casting spells, trickery, and wit.
Where is she going with this, you might ask? Last night, to my disbelief, I teamed up with my boyfriend and his friends for a campaign to save a small village from a giant, two-headed monster with a hoard of miscreants. The only way to defeat said beast was to find and reassemble a relic, a magical staff hidden by the forefathers.
Our band of heroes broke off into two teams, each to locate one piece of the mighty tool. Ours went in search of the piece buried deep in a valley, entombed with the forefathers. Many had followed the dangerous road to its resting place only to be smashed or shot with arrows from boobie traps. We overcame assailants on the road and braved the tricks and traps to find someone had beaten us there. A goblin, though witty, did not know of the staffs power, only that he wanted to find it first to brag. Trades were made, and we headed back into the city to rondevu with our team.
Upon return, we found our other crew had also had some struggles. A member was lost to enemy fire, but the team had managed to escape with their half of the staff. Reunited forces and a reconstructed staff now magically weilded by a great grandson of the founders, and we were ready to take on our foe.
Giant and ugly, with magic ruins and spells, he greeted our small village with a large boulder right to our main gate. His evil minions and imps sprang thru the decimated gate immediately, engaging our fighters. We had one giant weapon (literally) to counter their attack. Our fighter with magical help grew to 4 times his size and was able to strike some devastating blows to one head of the monster, while the rest of us fought in one on one combat.
Attacks were made with enchanted objects, fairie fire, and stealth moves until all that remained was the two-headed, now mortally wounded giant. With a final team rally, the giant was beaten down with his own bloody decapitated head, launched with great force by huge catapult into its tired body.
Cheers erupted from the team and from the village as townsfolk came out of hiding. Victory was ours! Well fought and well executed, our team walked away as heroes having saved the village from certain death.
And that my friends is my first experience with a Dungeons & Dragons Campaign. We had two Masters guiding us through, answering our heroes questions, plotting turns and twists through our seige, watching and tracking our rolls, and playing the evil grotesque monsters. There is so much to game, so many different dice to cast spells or save lives, to move and to attack. You roll to see if your attack will hit or miss your opponent. Then you roll to see how much of hit your opponent takes, and sometimes you get backlash. All tallied by the Masters.
I did enjoy this trip into the realm of magic. I had a good time learning the rolls of the dice and the rules for the spells, the different characters, and the powers of each. We played the above scenario for 5 hours. 4 hours longer than most games I have ever played, and from what I am told, others play this game for weeks at a time. I am not that vested in it, but a campaign every now and then sounds like a new exciting adventure. If you are a D&D fan, share with me your character. Maybe I’ll get some new ideas!!! And a set of my own dice!!!
This is exactly what it sounds like. What better way is there to spend one of the remaining long summer Friday nights? I mean, we only get a few of them before we are back to school or work or the short days of winter. Not that I’m complaining that football is back on TV, but you know what I mean.
Tonight is the night. It’s still blazing hot here in Las Vegas, but once that sun goes down, the temperature is almost nice. I am going to go over to my good friends’ apartment complex pool, complete with hot tub, and we are just going to chill. But when we do, we do it in style. The party comes with us, music, entertainment, drinks and refreshments. We have it all.
I’m not just talking about drinks, which, of course, we will have because happy hour, obviously. We roll out a good spread. Those kid beach wagons make perfect meals on wheels or food set up. They come with cup holders for drinks, a divider not used in this case to keep kids apart, and are easy to tote thru the pool gate. Everything you need easily transported.
But what do we bring with us, you ask? Well, that is an easy question. Our unique brand of fun and crazy, a waterproof speaker, our travel wago, and oh yea, anything and everything you could have on a charcuterie board or a snack buffet and a mini-bar 🍸 😉
It’s hot, so we take a few thermoses filled with ice and our other tumblers with our pregame drinks. We grab a bottle of sprite, a thing of OJ or juice, a bottle of wine, and / or a bottle of vodka. We’ve added a cooler before, but pouring as needed with the ice is a lot easier than lugging a big cooler of ice.
All out for the snacks, too. Veggies and hummus, cheese and meats, chips, and salsa. We cooked up some Korean spare ribs and made a few quesadillas. Could have made up some bruschetta, but we got a little overboard. And last but not least, we had fresh fruit and m&ms as our sweet snacks. We think we take enough for us, but I kid you not, we probably can feed at least six people.
We are just out there trying to relax and enjoy the night. Good company, good drinks, good snacks. All the essentials 👌 I hope that you have a chance to enjoy a few more nights yourself. So cheers to you!!
I may or may not have told you my background or what I do for fun. I have degrees in Interior Design, and I work for a commercial paint company. Right now, I mainly work with designers to get samples made for projects in town. I see the same colors going up on the same walls, not very exciting. But I can and have been using my knowledge and skills on the side to help friends and other clients.
This time, I get to help a friend with her home in Colorado. She just moved into a new rental, and the landlord has agreed to do a few maintenance things, a little sprucing up if you will. She has a similar background as me, but I have access to the colors and do consultations all the time.
Exterior painting projects are different from interior projects because neighborhood rules and surrounding houses have to be considered. My friend doesn’t have an HOA committee with preselected color schemes and a board to sign off on. The other part to consider is the mood of the houses on the street. You don’t want to come into a neutral pallet and paint the house bright pink. Or come into a modern gray industrial neighborhood and go for Tuscan colors in browns and tans.
When you think Colorado, you think of trees and skies, mountians, and green hills. That naturalistic color pallet follows into the houses. In this area, houses blend in with the environment. My friend sent me pictures of her house and her two neighbors. The two with deep gray blue siding and dark gray roofing blend much better than the current light yellow/ tan color on their house. The roofing on theirs is a wood/brown color that I think is much better and will allow for a richer trim as opposed to white. Giving the house an updated unique look
She had an idea for a light grey color that could be the base color for the siding. One that she found online that was popular in that area. I used that gray to find a charcoal for the window trim and roof trim as well as an accent color for the door. Always taking into mind and starting with what the client wants. Then I went above and beyond.
Sometimes, a friend or client won’t know what they want to like until they see it. But everyone wants options. It is easy for me to come up with options because I have seen so many color pallets and color schemes for many different house types and locations. We both agreed that the house should remain on a light color. The neighbors both have white trim, which on the gray and slate is an accent color, but white on the light color would not stand out. So, instead, our trim and our accents are going to be richer, with dark browns, grays, or greens.
I pulled from the surrounding colors to get away from the blue and gray. I found a mellow green, a rich town brown and a light brownish red. Each with a roof trim, window trim, and an accent door/ shade color. It was fun for me to lay the color cards out and adjust when the trim color wasn’t quite right or the body should have been a hint more brown, less red. Overall, I am sending her 6 schemes. As I would for any of my clients, I never recommend doing paint samples. Painting a swatch on the wall will only play tricks on your eyes, distorting the true color as more of what you see is the entire wall color.
So, I am writing up a full set of notes for each scheme. Then I ordered 8×11 sheets of each. I recommend attaching them to a whiteboard or white poster board so they are easily movable to different areas of the house. Anyone repainting should see the colors in the sun and shadows, day vs. night, so they can really judge if they like the color. On the poster board, you don’t have the house painted like a cheetah in the process. Lol
I can’t show you my schemes here, but doing color is legitimately a favorite thing of mine. I am working to expand that part of my skills and will hopefully have something up and going here soon. But time will tell. If you have any color questions, interior or exterior, feel free to drop them here. I’m always willing to give input and can help if your gray is too green or that purple is too grapey. What questions do you have?
So our lovely Las Vegas weather has been nothing but days over 100 for the past 2 weeks or so. We have smoke in the valley from California fires, so plenty of us are struggling with the heat and allergies/ air quality. And now we have just a hint of rain and humidity in the forecast.
Seeing those big storm clouds in the distance brings me joy, even though it also brings stickiness and sweatiness. There is nothing like the look, sound, and feel of a summer thunderstorm. It is one of my favorite things to crack the windows and just listen.
If you are lucky enough to have a view of the city or the horizon, when the big storms come in, the lighting show could equal that of a show on the Las Vegas strip. Our air is usually dry and static, and when those bolts run through it, the effect is awe inspiring. Some will cross the sky, and others will shoot higher into the clouds. In the daytime, the flashes are bright, but at night, those flashes turn colors in bright contrast to the dark gray/blue clouds. It has an even different effect here as our night sky reflects the lights of the strip in a rainbow of colors, and it meets the yellow flash of light. Hair on my arm standing up just thinking about it.
When the rain starts to fall, fast or slow, it’s like a hush over the town/street depending on where you are. We don’t see the rain often, and most tend to stay in when it comes down. I love hearing the wind whistle thru is and the rush of drops hitting the ground, the splashing of puddles as cars go by. I like the steady soft rain, but the down pours just really intensify the joy, well as long as I’m not driving in it.
Thunder will crack in the sky, sometimes so close and so loud that it will rattle the walls. It can come before the rain gets to you or boom while it’s coming down. The sound of fireworks is nothing compared to it. It rumbles along, rain falling on the houses, on the windows. Adding to the overall feel of dark and moody.
It wouldn’t be complete however with out the intoxicating smell that it brings. The best way I can describe it is fresh earth. Here, we don’t have that fresh cut grass smell. We have a dusty terrain, and when it mixes with rain, it smells rustic, salty, and earthy. Different from rain in a forest where you smell moss and Pines. The after is best. The sky is no longer colored with smog and dust but blue and fresh, almost as if someone rinsed it off and put in a new glade plug in lol.
Today, it hasn’t started to fall yet, but it is around. I am hoping that once I get off that the storms will be here, and I can run thru the rain when I get home. Or at least get to hear it while I sleep. Rain in the desert isn’t a guarantee, though. It is literally hit or miss. I’m crossing my fingers for a direct hit today! 😁
How many of us are lucky enough to still have our grandparents around? Do you ever stop to remember how awesome they are or how much they love you? And it’s with a totally different love than the kind of love your parents give you. There isn’t much you can do wrong that a grandparent won’t forgive.
Some of us are blessed to live near them or grow up with them. Oftentimes, like me and my sister, we are far apart, only seeing them in the summers or every few years for family gatherings. As they get older, more things become harder to do. Spending time with them usually means talking at the table or maybe taking them out for dinner.
The stories they tell you might have been told once or 12 times. They might use the phrase “back when I was young” to start most sentences. Maybe you occasionally get the dirt on what your parents tried to get away with when they were young. Or for many, you hear the stories of war, trouble, or desperate times, that ingrained attitude of “if you don’t work, you don’t eat.”
It’s amazing to me what life experience you can gather by just talking to someone in that generation. They have been thru so much in 75 to 100 years. Everything from love to life to politics, and from the highs to the losses, there really is no event that they haven’t experienced. We can learn a lot.
I can’t say that my grandparents dropped a lot of keepers on me when it came to pearls of wisdom, lol. But they told me about what Hawaii was like before the bombing, what you had to do to get by when you lost a loved one in a car accident or to the war. The jobs they took to have apartments with siblings or friends. What it was like growing up with a large family on a military salary. Jumping off the train tracks into the river, even though mom would have made them do chores for 2 months if she knew. But my favorite was the way they loved, or said he was the most handsome man or she was so beautiful I couldn’t look away. That is lost on our/this generation.
Grandparents come to mind for me every day as I am living with my boyfriends grandma. It’s interesting with our personalities, and we make it work. I am reminded of my moms mom, who passed away a few years ago. I do my best to help, to let her do her do things on her own and not to get upset when we dont see eye to eye. I still haven’t mastered how she likes the dishwasher loaded, but I digress.
Today, my dad’s mom, my Gma, who is the last remaining grandparent, took a fall and has broken her hip. She was alone in her house, and the neighbor found her after a few hours, luxky he did as she did not have her alert with her. She is in surgery right this moment. Unfortunately, my Gma doesn’t handle pain meds well. They cause so many side affects for her. She will have a tough recovery. In her 80s and still fiesty, but broken hips are never a hood thing for the elderly.
To my shame, I haven’t made too much effort as of late to reach out and chat with her. We have Facebook messages, and she drops photos of us randomly. We talk for a few minutes on the phone, maybe 4 times a year for holidays and birthdays. I love my Gma, but distance is a hard thing. It’s very out of sight out of mind.
The fall was not a good thing, but it is a hood reminder that time is fading. It is precious, and everyone has a day when the clock stops. If you are one of the lucky that has grandparents take a few minutes to call them, go see them, give them a hug. Keep the fond memories of them close to your heart and maybe go share a few more laughs and smiles. I’m sending prayers and kisses your way, Gma! 😘
Sometimes, the stars just align to have some fun. Have you ever called a friend and asked if they were free right now, and they said yes? Or you just happen to be in the neighborhood, and you can stop by for a quick lunch with a friend or special someone? It’s always good to take advantage when things line up because you never know when your time is up. Enjoying friends and family on the fly is rare and special because sometimes the best of plans fall through.
Last night, I was out running groceries, and I just got it on my brain that I had to call my sister. When I asked her what she was up to, she said they were actually in my neighborhood doing Amazon. My sister and I are queens of side hustles, lol. We both had about 30 minutes on our clock, in the same place, and up for dessert 🍨
We just happened to be craving something sweet, cold, and with summer vibes. There is this little place in a shopping center called Pineapple Park. It has Dole Soft Serve, Thrifty Ice Cream, crepes, and other sweet treats. It took a few minutes to get our order since we weren’t the only ones with dessert on our minds. I got Dole Pineapple and Strawberry 🍓 😋 🍍 and they got a Dole float, and coconut Mango soft serve. To each their own. Website is below if you are in Southern Hills Area Las Vegas lol
The best parts, other than the tasty treats, were just enjoying the summer night and hanging with my sister and brother in law. We didn’t have anywhere to be. We just sat, ate, and talked about our week, their trucking business, my job, a new Bao place that has opened up. It was just nice to be together and have no expectations of what the time was supposed to be or what activity we were doing. No plans, just there.
You can’t plan impromptu. It just happens. But if you are thinking about someone, give them a call. See what they are up to. Who knows, you might be thinking about the same wine and paint event or both craving Mexican food. Maybe they need to talk but didn’t know who to call. Or maybe you just need a little break from the daily tolls. I do dare you to put out some fun vibes into the universe. Ask the universe to send you a buddy this week and go have some fun. It is summer, after all.
Some days you really just don’t feel like cooking the big fancy “dinner”. Ya know the one that is balanced with protein, carbs, and the correct serving size of green veggies. Not that anything is wrong with popping in a frozen pizza or heating up a microwave meal either. There is absolutely no judgment here.
Tonight, I was trying to find something to cook, and pasta seemed to be the only thing in the cabinet since groceries are coming tomorrow. That just didn’t sound appealing. So, instead, I found a few things to throw together for a skillet. My favorite breakfast minus the eggs. Yep, you read that right. I am not an egg person. Boyfriend says it’s a flaw, but we all can’t be perfect. Lol
It didn’t take me more than 10 minutes to chop and throw it all together. I used 2 potatoes, half a red pepper, and half an onion for the skillet. I have a package of frozen breakfast sausage, so I grabbed a couple of those and threw them in too. I sprinkled them with a bit of garlic, taco seasoning, and some other spices and browned everything up a bit. I just realized I forgot to add some Mexican blend cheese, but it’s OK. Usually, I would have some avocado, but again, I’m waiting on those dang groceries, 😆
Finished up with some buttered toast and a glass of milk. Let me tell you, something so simple just hit the spot. It was a long day, and a quick meal was just what I needed to let the day simmer. And only one dish to wash and put away for an added bonus.
Do you ever get a craving for breakfast instead of the time appropriate meal? My boyfriend craves steak and eggs sometimes. For my sister, it’s pancakes or waffles. Mom just gets out a bowl of cereal sometimes. Share your go-to breakfast for dinner. Or your quick fix meal for a busy or long day. Would love to get more ideas 🙂
The Distracted Damsel 