Ok this one is going to be short and sweet because I think that the title is kind of self-explanatory. You know already what day is just around the corner. I’m not going to say it but it’s covered in red and pink, flowers and chocolates. Currently, I do not have a special someone to call my own. If I need a cuddle my trusty dog Kona is there to give me kisses. That being said, I know this holiday can be really depressing for people for all reasons. Single, lost loved ones, bad relationships, cant afford to do anything, would rather eat worms than celebrate a hallmark/chocolate holiday etc. The stores hype it up, the movies hype it up but really, everyday is an occasion to tell people you love them. But there is no harm in spreading a bit of love just in case.
I have been thinking a lot about the concept of pay it forward and how we all interact with each other lately. Everyone is on a short fuse and negative. We’ve had a rough couple of years so I totally get it. I’ve had my moments but I realize that when I think about the happiness I can bring others (not forgetting my own self-love) I feel my trouble and heart get lighter. There really is a personal joy when you can add happiness and love to someone else’s day. A smile really can change someone’s day. A simple bag of candy with their name on it came make someone feel special, because they know you took the time out of your day to do something nice.
My extended family has come to include my coworkers, I mean we spend 8+ hours, five days a week together. We have been in the grind together for the last 2 years and we need each other some days more than others. I have always been the baker and the sweet treat provider for all special occasions. Or let’s be real, whenever I wanted some brownie batter but didn’t want the tray of them. I haven’t really been in up for much since I am minding my diet but seeing all the treats decorate the store has me in the mood and I know the guys could use a bit of sugar.
Normally I would go for the heart shaped cookies. But if you have ever made sugar cookie cut outs it does take a lot of work rolling the dough, cutting them, frosting etc. So instead, this year I opted for chocolate covered pretzels. Other than melting the chocolate, all you have to do is dip and dry, bag and tag. Simple and sweet. Sure, I spent a bit more on the ridiculous colored sprinkles than probably necessary. And of course I am going to cut out name tags on fun heart colored paper on another night. But when Monday morning comes, I will bring in my box with a bag of treats and hand them out one by one and get to see the smiles. And who knows, maybe my treats will be the only valentine (ok so I used it once) they get that day.
Im not saying to go out there, buy supplies and go crazy on the sweet treats. You don’t have to go get a box of cheesy cards and hearts to hand out. But if someone comes to mind that you think needs a pick me up, bring them a coffee since you are already getting one. If you have nothing to give you can call and say “hey I just wanted to say hi” or “I love you”. Smile at someone who looks like they are having a rough time. Give the homeless person on the corner some spare change. Take a few extra seconds to hold the door and welcome people in. Whatever it is just add a bit of love. You’ll be pleasantly surprised with the responses you get in return 😊
The Distracted Damsel 